Hollywood says that you should find your soulmate and then
you fall in love. There are websites
that ask twenty compatibility questions, and based on your answers, connect you
with ten potential matches. But the
Bible teaches a totally different plan.
When you marry, you make a commitment.
You are commanded in Ephesians 5 to love your mate … for life. Love isn’t an ushy gushy feeling; love is a
commitment. We are to love our mates as
Christ loved us. And Jesus Christ loved
us while we were sinners - while we were unlovely. We don’t fall in love; we grow in love. Hollywood says that when your love dies, it
is the other one’s fault. They didn’t
meet your needs. You are justified to
ditch the old one and find a new soulmate.
But God commands us to love, honor, and cherish till death do us
part. For better or for worse. Love is not a noun, a thing that we have,
love is a verb, a thing that we do. We
must work on our love and nurture it. True
love grows because of the time that we put into it to make it thrive. Love is meeting the other person’s needs. Love is growing old together.
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